Dorothy Dandridge and Harry Belafonte
We all have those role playing fantasies.
Mine are all wrapped up in the throw back of the 50s. When desire had a pretty little hem line right above the knee. A hint here. Some skin there. So much restraint you wanted to give him a lap dance in the movie theatre, but there were just one too many people. And being arrested for lewd acts in public, isn’t really how you want your mama to become aware that at 33 you really aren’t a virigin. (Coming to a podcast near you: “Ma, Do Still Believe I’m A Virgin?”)
refocus Comeback Lovelies.
What’s the best role you’ve ever played? What role do you dream of playing? That question was for the ladies and the gentlemen aspiring Harry Belafonte’s and Sidney Poitier’s of our tree house.
Mine? A demure and young barefoot contessa (moi) in a strapless dress quietly soothing her man’s sexy pensiveness with a cup cake and a backrub. Oh did I mention we were in Tuscany in an old farm house surrounded by a vineyard with lots of sheep roaming the countryside.
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Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:47 am
The scene I am looking forward to recreating is the one in Jamaica from “How Stella Got Her Groove Back.”
Yes mam, platform bed with the hanging white linen, the door to the balcony overlooking the ocean open letting in the humid, sticky night’s air. And I can’t forget about that tear. I am going to recreate that tear if it’s the last thing I do…lol.
I’m really thinking about a holiday trip to Jamaica on our 10 day school break…no work, no school. This is when working at a college is the best!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 7:24 am
I’ve never played a role. [Gosh, I'm such a virg!]
Who I’d like to be…..
I am preparing my man dinner and am in the process of washnig dishes. When he comes in from work, I don’t hear him and he sneaks up behind me and plants kisses on the back of my neck.
I can’t finish the rest… it’s been too long. LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:08 am
Good Morning All,
I’ve done the role thing like once or twice. IDK. I just went along with it to get some. I wasn’t into it.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:09 am
“I just went along with it to get some. I wasn’t into it.”
LMAO. Not into the freaky deaky huh, Black?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:14 am
“LMAO. Not into the freaky deaky huh, Black?”
Don’t get it twisted I can get freaky. But I wasn’t feeling what she was trying to do. I wasn’t that into her. The other time I did it with the ex and that was a little better.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:18 am
“Don’t get it twisted I can get freaky. But I wasn’t feeling what she was trying to do. I wasn’t that into her.”
You know what???? I’ve never done phone s3x… I’ve had men do it to me, but I feel stupid… Just can’t get into it.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:18 am
Morning everybodies
*muah muah*
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:20 am
Good Mernin Mik!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:32 am
Good Merning Mik, Tea, Sunny and Hummy
I have one annoucement to make before I go and get some coffee…i just perused my brother from another mother (SBM) blog this morning…And Slim over there talking about “baby what you workin wif”…as a “sexual ice breaker”. i think some people are closet prudes and they don’t even know it.
People aren’t having great s!ex because they lack imgination. Your largest and most potent sex!ual organ is between your two ears.
@ Tea..I knew i could count on your to bring the imagery LOL.
@ Sunny “I can’t finish the rest… it’s been too long. LOL
”
please do.
@ Hummy “I just went along with it to get some. I wasn’t into it.”
share with the class what was she tryna do?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:34 am
Good morning yall!!!!
All I know is I need my man to invest in a pole…..It can be hung 24/7 in the bedroom for all I care…. I just want a pole…. And yes when I’m on the pole I need tips…..
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:35 am
Back by popular demand…
I want him to lift my skirt up and just take it right there… while my hands are still in the sink.
Whew! [any body got a nice cold glass of lemonade?]
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:37 am
“All I know is I need my man to invest in a pole…..It can be hung 24/7 in the bedroom for all I care…. I just want a pole…. And yes when I’m on the pole I need tips…..
”
@ 80s…yes…i like that. what kinda tips..tips as in MONEY??? LOL or tips as in “get your @zz up higher boo”?
@ Sunny “I want him to lift my skirt up and just take it right there… while my hands are still in the sink. ” wow Sunny…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:39 am
@ 80s…yes…i like that. what kinda tips..tips as in MONEY??? LOL or tips as in “get your @zz up higher boo”?
As in MONEY!!!!!!! lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:43 am
Comeback I does what I do…and I’ve been fantasizing about that recreating that scene ALL D@MN YEAR!!!
Do you know what it’s like to have a vision in your head for almost a d@mn year, lol.
I do want to do the blindfolded tied to the bedpost thing…him, not me. I’m going to be the one commencing the pleasure…watching him squirm in tiny fits of estacy will heighten the experience I’m sure.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:43 am
Good morning.
I’ve played a lot of roles. I find it fun. Nicki the one you mentioned was one of my favs, except she had on heels and was just wearing a robe. Some women have some creative fantasies, but I usually am down.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:44 am
I dunno about fantasies but I do know I was sleep last night and a ninja (a real one) punched me in my stomach last night and i felt it !! No more falling asleep on chines subtitle movies EVER.
p.s if anyone has ever seen the banquet please tell me who stabbed empress wan at the end please
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:46 am
“I want him to lift my skirt up and just take it right there… while my hands are still in the sink”
uh didn’t that already happen? cept you had a toothbrush in your hand….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:48 am
“I dunno about fantasies but I do know I was sleep last night and a ninja (a real one) punched me in my stomach last night and i felt it !! ”
@ Mik… I just busted out laughing
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:50 am
@ NO MO can you elaborate some heels and a robe…was she playin Layla Ali …details people…details.
@ Mik “I dunno about fantasies but I do know I was sleep last night and a ninja (a real one) punched me in my stomach last night and i felt it !! No more falling asleep on chines subtitle movies EVER.”
maybe i should have just written about socks today…yall are really surprising me i hope this tree house doesn’t have any latent sex!ual repressions.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:52 am
LOL. That did happen Mik… but I’m gonna need it to be my MAN this time… my true man in spirit.
Woo woo.. Nomore, I knew you were with it.
I want a pole too… but first I gotta learn how to work it.
Mik. WTF with those dreams???? I’ve dreamt I was in labor a COUPLE of times and felt it…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:53 am
@ T “Do you know what it’s like to have a vision in your head for almost a d@mn year, lol.
well not exactly a year but three months YES I DO..
blind folds…yes and yes.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:54 am
Comeback she was doing the role Nicki described above, in the kitchen preparing food but I told her to do it in heels, and she had on a robe. Then when I got home I slid her robe off and hit her off bent over the counter.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:55 am
My fantasy is as follows I imagine myself in a 40’s style apron and dress, red heels and old school pin up hair. my hero arrives home from the war in his freshly pressed suit and shined shoes. I’m in the kitchen fixing dinner layering the icing on his cake he comes up behind me slips my apron off with one hand and bends me over the table. the rest is too hot and steamy to print…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:57 am
Yep, near a year…and I was hoping to make that trip with my girl this month right after Christmas since the fair is so cheap from Florida to Jamaica…if she can get the time off it’s a go.
We’re going to get our groove back and hook up some sexy island men…lol, or if Pep would just act right, damn naggas.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:57 am
But I’m not gonna lie…. Ummmmm I’m probably the most inexperienced person here at the treehouse….And the only place I’ve ever did it was in a bed. No role playing nothing extra… It just would have been sooooo out of my element for me to try to take it up a notch… So we just left it alone….But the next time I’ll be ready
ha ha
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:58 am
“and hit her off bent over the counter.”
I just got breathless here. Toooo long…. tooo long folks.
@Akua: Love the 40’s style pinup look!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:58 am
Good Morning Ya’ll
I have never role played. However, I did buy a sexy santa outfit from VS last year and wore it for my then beau…. but I am with 80’s on the pole…… that’s my fantasy….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 8:59 am
Hey Hol-ister!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:01 am
Hey Nicko!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:02 am
I seen a lil bit of the pole dancing class that Sheree hosted on Real Housewives of Atlanta and the instructor was the same girl who taught my girl’s pole dancing party….. If I ever move to the A I am definitely signing up for her classes…. lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:04 am
80’s: I agree.. that chick was doing her thang. I wish we had ‘em here… Our main black strip club is so friggin hood though. I wouldn’t want to go to anything they were teaching. LOL.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:04 am
What’s up Holly!
Well guys that’s my time…I give myself until 9am to commence in the tomfoolery before I have to get to work.
I’ll chat with yall on the flip side…later.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:05 am
I dont think I liked the ones Sheree used… they looked scary…. But it seems like there are a whole lotta pole dance instructors up in here! But I mean Atlanta is full of strip clubs….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:05 am
Hey Teacia! Glad you getting focused!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:07 am
@ No Mo “Comeback she was doing the role Nicki described above”
okey dokey…
@ Akua “My fantasy is as follows I imagine myself in a 40’s style apron and dress, red heels and old school pin up hair. my hero arrives home from the war in his freshly pressed suit and shined shoes”
from WWII…thats kinda hot.
@ T “We’re going to get our groove back and hook up some sexy island men…lol, or if Pep would just act right, damn naggas.
”
Pep needs to pep it up..or Stella’s gon to the island.
@80s “No role playing nothing extra” this is interesting because a couple of men I’ve been with i never really wanted to do anything special..but others invoke that sumthin sumthin. i dunno. Maybe some of us are wit the wrong people..where we only just wanna hit the mattressess LOL.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:07 am
Nicki: “Nomore, I knew you were with it.”
Yeah, Its fun and can be pretty hilarious, especially when youre doing some bad acting or youre clueless as how to incorporate scenarios. I know thus far I have been a teacher, student, doctor, patient, stripper, employer, volleyball coach, police officer, phone sex operator, burglar, and a few others.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:07 am
i’ma pop in and pop out today, cause I have tons of awesomeness to do, but I’ll say this:
that picture of h. belafon and d. dandrige. is the most ballinest picture in modern history.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:08 am
“Yeah, Its fun and can be pretty hilarious, especially when youre doing some bad acting or youre clueless as how to incorporate scenarios. I know thus far I have been a teacher, student, doctor, patient, stripper, employer, volleyball coach, police officer, phone sex operator, burglar, and a few others”
LOL. WOW Kimosabe.
@Nomore: Have you ever videotaped any of those?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:09 am
Holly “I have never role played. However, I did buy a sexy santa outfit from VS last year and wore it for my then beau…. but I am with 80’s on the pole…… that’s my fantasy….
”
Hi Holster ..yeah i think we need to have a pole party..its everywoman’s fantasy.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:10 am
Good Morning!!!
OoOoO….
I am always down for being Daddy’s little girl! This goes down all the damned time.
Rape is always a good one.
Both have been achieved.
There was also the club on Bourbon, Lake P, down by the Mississippi and in the park…not mention being “arrested”
I have more….but later ok kids.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:13 am
Nicki: “Nomore: Have you ever videotaped any of those?”
Nope, I dont do tapes anymore. I had a taped a couple of girls and messed around and lost the camcorder and the tapes on a trip. I’m waiting to get famous and all of a sudden someone releases “exclusive NMH raunchy footage”.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:14 am
“WOW Kimosabe”
that made me lol
I just want someone to teach me how to do a strip tease to neyo’s song “mirror” so I can perform it for my man, then when it goes off im gonna bust out dancing to danity kane’s “bad girl” then some girls gonna appear outta nowhere dancing behind me with flashing red lights, then my pregnant best friend is going to come out and start crunkin in house shoes, thong n pasties.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:14 am
Hey Comeback! That would be fun! We need to all plan a weekend trip to meet up cause Chicago is forever away!!
@ Jac- I have a thing about call people daddy outside of my own daddy….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:15 am
I need more info about the burglar scenario.
Any Christmas ideas…I’m thinking he can be Santa and I can be…en elf?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:17 am
Hol-I don’t. One is one thing and the other is something totally different.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:17 am
See NoMOre, that is exactly why I won’t do a videotape! LOL
@Mik: “mirror” is sessay as hell chica.
@Holly: We could all meet up and do something fun like a striptease class.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:18 am
You are totally right…. I think I just feel stupid saying it LOL
But the Christmas idea- I have a sext santa outfit…. I think it’s called Santa Baby….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:19 am
@ Jac and Why Why…good Merning.
i dunno if i like the word “rape”..how about a friendly intrusion…LOL
@ Nik..i dunno if i could go for video either..its too risky. Im running for PTA president in 15 years and then a se@x tape pops up. notgonnabeabletodoit
@ Holly “Hey Comeback! That would be fun! We need to all plan a weekend trip to meet up cause Chicago is forever away!!”
are most people coming to the inaung??
i need to finish that secret santa thing.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:19 am
Yeah! Nicki and Comeback ya’ll need to plan that!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:19 am
“I dont think I liked the ones Sheree used…..they looked scary”
@ Holly….. Girl, she was the bomb instructor though like for real….She kept it simple and what not but it was fun… Unlike a pole party that I went to who was taught by some others… The others were actual previous strippers and was tryin to teach us some advanced stuff…..
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:21 am
“I have a thing about call people daddy outside of my own daddy”
@ Holly… I’m with you here.. My ex used to call me like “you miss daddy” and that will just ruin it for me…. He didn’t understand why I couldn’t get into that… I was like naw I don’t miss my daddy I’m sitting right here by him.. He would be like that’s your father I’m daddy… I’m like sorry but you will never be daddy…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:24 am
80s-Haha. Current definitely calls me Daddy’s little girl…he differentiates by calling his daughter Daddy’s little princess. HA! I do, however, know a club owner who only allows you to call him Daddy, more on him later though.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:25 am
” Nik..i dunno if i could go for video either..its too risky. Im running for PTA president in 15 years and then a se@x tape pops up. notgonnabeabletodoit”‘
And with my striving to be the mirror of Michelle Obama and all.
I agree Holister.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:26 am
@Comeback- I will be there. We need to create a poll.
Who else is going to DC???
@80s- The Prevo’s didnt know how to dumb it down! LOL @ the ex! Thats my sentiments exactly!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:26 am
I’ve kidded and said daddy to Humble on here a couple of times, but I can’t say it to a man in real life. Especially since that is what I call my real life daddy.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:26 am
Oh wait…there was a tape of me giving…
IT’s gone now though
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:28 am
Whyso-I need you to RSVP to Secret Santa and put up what you want.
I know Holly, I so agree-not sure I’m making to inaug since I’m getting a new job so a weekend sooner!!!! PUHLEEEZE!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:29 am
Jac: “Oh wait…there was a tape of me giving…”
I thought you looked familiar
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:30 am
In mid January, I’m going to visit my friend in Alabama since I won’t be able to attend her husbands funeral this week… but other than that, I have no obligations (except school of course, but that’s during the week).
Does anyone else have any times they are not good? Men, you all are free to join too.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:38 am
I am free except January 16th is when I go to DC, Last week in February I will be in Vegas
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:41 am
can i take a train from detroit to dc??
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:45 am
With regard to that pole party that was mentioned above….
Can I just sit in the corner with a cold beverage and a smile?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:46 am
Mik i thought you said most flights are under 200 bucks..dave would approve that message dam#n a train aint even efficient (unless we’re still talking orient express type fantasies and i think we’re done today LOL). time is money doll.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:48 am
****RANDOM****
I just downloaded BRITNEY & bought my pre-sale ticket for her concert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:49 am
Holly, I’m glad Britney’s back on her A game.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:50 am
Nicki me too!!! I am glad she has pulled it together!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:50 am
Dave said I can’t go unless its really really cheap
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:53 am
Dave is annoying the hel! out of me..what about your time..why spend 150 bucks to ride a train for 28 hours when you could fly for under 200 and be here in a matter of a couple of hours.
Dave need to run them numbers.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:55 am
lmao, I just looked at the train cost I thought it was cheaper my bad yo!
i need a travel agent, i dont get out much
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:56 am
who’s dave?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:58 am
Holly Dave is my financial advisor lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:00 am
Comeback leave Dave alone!!! He said he isn’t approving any trips until Jan 2010 you know he is a republican lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:03 am
I wonder if Dave has any sex#ual perversions that he is repressing and taking out on non sensical things that have him always on the side of expense when it comems to ::: time&effiencency vs. expenditure
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:06 am
Oh ok lol!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:14 am
eck. Republicans.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:16 am
Ok I don’t have any obligations that I know of. How about something in March?
Nic-Which part of Alabamal?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:16 am
Comeback its $325 round trip i believe
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:17 am
let me ponder that for a bit
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:22 am
“slimjackson
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:45 am · Edit
With regard to that pole party that was mentioned above….
Can I just sit in the corner with a cold beverage and a smile?
”
slim jackson’s comment just got unspanned he would like to be invited to the pole party..what say the tree house.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:23 am
Jac, she lives in Hunstville.
Is it Blaspheme if I say I can’t get into B. Scott???
Hop on Slim.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:24 am
He is welcome to come long as he has some Benjies, Abe’s, and Hamilton’s in his hand ready to give out… (just kidding)!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:25 am
Ok…Mik you’ve been invited.
Nic-uggh..Looove B..scootttt Damn H-ville too far.
Slim-I guess he can come…I’ma sit right next to him in the corner like Lisa. Slim if you can see this how can I invite you to Secret Santa?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:26 am
B is too tooo “the most” for me. I like my gay husbands a lil more manly, like Dwight from RHOA.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:27 am
Slim—– Come on…. We need them tips…..LOL
Unh unh Jac.. you gonna be participating too… LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:28 am
Nic-Not always tryna show the wang?
80s-Alrite okay
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:32 am
Jac: LMAO. No, a little more manly gay… B.Scott is too fem for my taste.. he is extra.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:36 am
Nic-b. Scott is prettier than all of us combined.
It kinda pisses me off a little.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:36 am
He is pretty but too much, too much. LOL.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:38 am
“Nic-b. Scott is prettier than all of us combined”
in my bestest bscott voice
“oh no mayam…no mayam”
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:40 am
Comeback-My favorite B. Scott ever is him talking about the trollop next door with the banshee for a child.
*died*
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:40 am
““Nic-b. Scott is prettier than all of us combined””
LOL. And none of our men are going after him anyways… did he have surgery to look like that? Still have tools in the toolbox?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:43 am
B scott is funny, my fav is when he was dancing to some song and fell on the floor got back up and posed.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:44 am
Girl I think he does…It’s the skin and the fab hair.
Did you see Neffe’s stylist on ybf yesterday? gorgeous, but manly. ALSO Beyonce’s song Roc?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:46 am
I saw Neffe’s stylist…. he was gorgeous but that posing pic of him freaked me out. LOL.
I didn’t get to hear that B song… time to go search. LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:46 am
B. Scott’s hair is simply gorgeous!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:49 am
Nic-How do you feel about her covering “At Last”?
It kinda hurt my feelings.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:50 am
I don’t think she did that song any justice Jac… leave it with Etta… that’s really one that I can’t think of a singer who can duplicate it… Etta just has that gritty unique voice.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:57 am
I like that song…it wasn’t so off that you didnt know Etta had done the song orginally.
its nice.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 10:59 am
i think B is gonna turn a lot of people onto that genre…im over here youtubin Etta’s stuff…and i’m hearing her differently..i dunno..maybe its a good thing.
i was never really into blues (is etta blues lol???)
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:08 am
Comeback I think she is Jazzy Blues…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:14 am
I think Beyonce’s voice was more beautiful and serene while Etta’s has more grit and anguish.. like how Jazz and blues is to me. When B sang it, it sounded like a ballad. When Etta sang it, it sounded a little sad.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:14 am
I can’t wait to see that movie though. Etta is interesting.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:14 am
Nicki that’s cause she was sad and doped up!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:15 am
@nicki
“I want him to lift my skirt up and just take it right there… while my hands are still in the sink.”
I have done this so many times. This isn’t role playing for me. Cooking or washing dishes its been done.
@Comeback
“share with the class what was she tryna do?”
Like we just met and didnt know each other. Basically a fake one night stand.
@Teacia
“Do you know what it’s like to have a vision in your head for almost a d@mn year, lol.”
I don’t know about a year. But since Thanksgiving I have been daydreaming and dreaming about women with D’s and DD’s. I don’t know where this came from. I’m not even a breast man.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:18 am
Killa Bee what’s up with men and D’s?? I told one of my friend boys that I had increased to a D and needed to reduce these puppies and he was like- NO!!!! Do you know that you are possessing something special now??
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:19 am
@Holly:I’m wondering if there are ANY happy jazzy women from back then????
Black,”I have done this so many times. This isn’t role playing for me.”
Oh I miss men.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:19 am
I get it. Jac, Neffe’s stylist looks like the cowardly lion!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
Nicki I dont think so…. At all!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:23 am
Holister, I couldn’t name one either… so sad.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:23 am
My mama has bigger boobs now (than when she was younger). I’m hoping mine don’t increase. I don’t want ‘em. LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:26 am
Hum-I don’t think it was a dream. Did you have turkey breasts for dinner?
I am horny all the damned time effing with this blog.
I am going back to work today for the next weeksish and I am done. Woo hoo.
Going to get this other job though.
Chea! (works cite whyso)
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:26 am
@Holly
“Killa Bee what’s up with men and D’s?? ”
I don’t know. I have thinking about them 24/7 lately. Although D’s and DD’s are nice and I wouldn’t turn them down I prefer a nice backside.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:27 am
“Basically a fake one night stand.”
this is hot rhat here Hummy..i might have to split the award with you and Tea..but Tea had more imagination wit it.
but this is something ive never tried. to be out and do this..i think would like drive me mad.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:29 am
What brought these thoughts on? What you eat at Thxgiving?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:30 am
“Although D’s and DD’s are nice and I wouldn’t turn them down I prefer a nice backside.”
i see somebody’ll be watchin the Victoria Secret fasion show..prime time live..soon
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:30 am
A fake one night stand is a good idea!! Go to a club act like you don’t know each other and all…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:31 am
@ comeback…
I read a book like this…. And it tripped me out because it was like she was doing it to a complete stranger who walked up on her in a club…. But it was actually her husband….. After I realized he was her husband I was like oh ok…..
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:33 am
I don’t know. I have thinking about them 24/7 lately.
@ Killa B…I shouldn’t have unbuttoned my pea coat for you the other day.. My bad… LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:42 am
@Holly
“What brought these thoughts on? What you eat at Thxgiving?”
I don’t know where these thoughts are coming from. I had smoked turkey, barbecue, cranberry sauce, sweet potato pie, etc.
@80’s
“I shouldn’t have unbuttoned my pea coat for you the other day.. My bad… LOL”
If you are built like that you need to come to Detroit immediately.
@Comeback
“i see somebody’ll be watchin the Victoria Secret fasion show..prime time live..soon”
Will watching this get this out my head.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:43 am
Was it the turkey? What part you have???
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:46 am
If you are built like that you need to come to Detroit immediately.
@ Black…. I keep forgetting some of yall don’t even know what I look like… Not to toot my own horn but I’m built up quite nicely…. Beep beep… Ha ha
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:53 am
@Holly
“Was it the turkey? What part you have???”
I think I had the leg and breast of the turkey.
@80’s
“I keep forgetting some of yall don’t even know what I look like… Not to toot my own horn but I’m built up quite nicely…. Beep beep… Ha ha”
Is that right?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 11:56 am
“Is that right?”
@ Killa B… Damn Skippy…. LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:03 pm
Damn that did it Killa B now you are permanently a leg and breast man…. that is until you have some Rump Roast! LOL!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:11 pm
@80’s
“Damn Skippy…. LOL”
If thats the case you really need to come to Detroit
@Holly
“Damn that did it Killa B now you are permanently a leg and breast man…. that is until you have some Rump Roast! LOL!!”
You think that’s why i’m lusting breast? Because of what I ate? I wouldn’t mind a nice succulent juicy rump roast.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:18 pm
Exactly Killa!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:20 pm
“You think that’s why i’m lusting breast? Because of what I ate? I wouldn’t mind a nice succulent juicy rump roast”
OMG Hummy…lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:22 pm
Comeback and Mik, how did you fare in that novel writing contest?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:22 pm
I need a relaxer. Complete random. Gotta keep it tight with short hair.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:24 pm
“Comeback and Mik, how did you fare in that novel writing contest?
”
um i didn’t fare at all…lol i’ll talk about it Fri LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:26 pm
@Comeback:
oooh, ok. I’ll be patient and wait.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:27 pm
@Comeback
“OMG Hummy…lol
This celibacy gets rough at times.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:29 pm
This celibacy gets rough at times.
For every day of the week that ends in -day for me.
J/K
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:30 pm
Oh poor Hummy…
has anybody seen the tv one unsung series..they did Phyillis hyman, the Clark Sisters and tonite DONNY HATHAWAY.
its surprisingly good. i cant believe im watchin tv duringthe week i dvr errythang
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:31 pm
*comes back from lunch and cues up its so cold in the “C” (celibacy club) how the heck do we spoze to keep peace, doubled D’s on my mind, all the freakin timmmeeee, its so cold in the “C”
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:32 pm
“This celibacy gets rough at times.”
i dont think about it like that…the only thing i noticed is that my imagination is OFF THE FREAKIN METER…
which is why i brought yall the roll play stuff..yall dont ever dream.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:32 pm
“has anybody seen the tv one unsung series..”
My mama was telling me about Phyllis Hyman’s… I still remember when she committed suicide.
I saw the Debarge on on Thanksgiving.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:32 pm
“has anybody seen the tv one unsung series..”
My mama was telling me about Phyllis Hyman’s… I still remember when she committed suicide.
I saw the Debarge one on Thanksgiving.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:33 pm
“comes back from lunch and cues up its so cold in the “C” (celibacy club) how the heck do we spoze to keep peace, doubled D’s on my mind, all the freakin timmmeeee, its so cold in the “C”
Mik you aint even a member anymore..so why you sangin songs..
i aint cold tho i got my imagination and my …well…i have other things..LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:35 pm
HI DEAR COMEBACK GIRL AND READERS
THIS IS PART 11 OF MY CHRISTMAS MIX
TOMOROW (WEDNESDAY) IT WILL BE OFFLINE
SO BE FAST
http://members.home.nl/letskicksome/EJAM/christmas11.mp3
THURSDAY OR FRIDAY THE LAST CHRISTMAS MIX WILL BE ONLINE
THANX FOR LISTENING
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:37 pm
Hi E…pulling it now..can you post the lastplay list
..oh wait i have this one.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:39 pm
E jam saves the afternoon with a mix!! wooo freeakin huuuu!
comeback im just tryin to help humble out, he needed some music
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Thanks E!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:43 pm
@Comeback
“i dont think about it like that…the only thing i noticed is that my imagination is OFF THE FREAKIN METER…”
I don’t need my imagination throwing random breast in my head every 10 minutes.
@Anitra – You got jokes huh?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:48 pm
@ Killa B… Check ur email….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:49 pm
“@Comeback
“i dont think about it like that…the only thing i noticed is that my imagination is OFF THE FREAKIN METER…”
I don’t need my imagination throwing random breast in my head every 10 minutes.
”
im tryna help yall out…the nuns at my highscool always talked about “sublimation”…rechanneling sex#ual energy into something else..
seriously…i think sometimes at least for me..its like a muse all its own.
my quetion is what are yall doing with this celibate time..some of yall are depressing as he!1 with it..maybe it could be used for good.
get a hobby..put that setual energy into making a pot. Drawing. Refinishing a table. Writing a book. etc.
its not all bad..if at all.at least to me.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:50 pm
“my quetion is what are yall doing with this celibate time..some of yall are depressing as he!1 with it..maybe it could be used for good.”
LMAO. I’m using my toy but doing nothing more than normal.. sex really didn’t take up much of my time anyway since the last guy lived all the way in Baltimore.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:08 pm
@Comeback
“my quetion is what are yall doing with this celibate time..some of yall are depressing as he!1 with it..maybe it could be used for good.”
Maybe i’m making it seem more of an issue than it really is. I just go through bouts when it gets hard.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:09 pm
@80’s – I didn’t see anything.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:12 pm
@killa b… I sent it to your killa email address.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Hi all
If you have a pole party, I wanna come too. Stripaerobics and pole dance classes are expensive as hell!
About the topic: I’ve never been interested in role play. I’m way too goofy for it to ever be sexy.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Hey Fly!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:24 pm
hey nickisunshine
and 80s and anitra and humble and whyso and comeback and jac and holly and all.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:28 pm
hmmm 80’s you going up to Detroit???
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:30 pm
Hey Fly! How is it going!! Fly you got some Benjies?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:31 pm
What it do my good people swinging from the trees…
…okay first I would like to accept the award, and share it with my dear blog buddy Humble One aka Hummy aka Black aka Humble One as Killa Black aka Killa aka Killa Bee…lol
I just wanted to point out how many transitions his name has gone through, lol.
@Humble: yeah i’m feeling the fake one night stand…that could be great, especially if you incorporate the double blind folds….ooooh, yeah i’m gonna get on that as soon as i ummm see, ummm, yeah i haven’t gotten the “who” figured out just yet.
Then again I do have a trip to DC coming up…lol.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:32 pm
@T: I’d love to do those double blind folds too… LOL, don’t get too close to the edge of the bed… better yet, me and “him” might have to stay on the floor for that one.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:33 pm
Hey Fly!!
I was thinking about you earlier, I am not gonna go to see wicked in chicago. Tickets got super expensive and the only ones they had left was the nose bleed seats. After I did some research on the theater and the play itself, I found out that this isn’t a play you can sit way in the back for and still enjoy everything that goes on soooooooooo. We got a hotel outside of the city called the champagne lounge and suites, sounded like some place you go to meet hookers to me!! but it had all the amenities the bf was looking for and it looks cute and quant from the pictures. I think we are still gonna have fun. 12 more days!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:37 pm
Hey fly???? Was it you asking about trip a little while ago??? Did you go?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:38 pm
anitra,
I hope you two have fun. I’m mad you’re not going to see wicked, because I was hoping you’d come back and tell me about it, lol. What are you two going to do that weekend?
My “friend” keeps trying to get me to go to Detroit with him to a Pistons game, but that just doesn’t sound exciting to me.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:40 pm
“@Humble: yeah i’m feeling the fake one night stand…that could be great, especially if you incorporate the double blind folds….ooooh, yeah i’m gonna get on that as soon as i ummm see, ummm, yeah i haven’t gotten the “who” figured out just yet. ”
@ Tee..we should write a se!x manual..but err umm first i might need to be getting lots ..for credibility and all. we could knock Karrine;s manual off her block. She’s doing positions and stuff…we could add the element of the role play…since great se!x isn’t just about fykin..its 90 percent mental.
@ Hi Fly…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:41 pm
Yeah Nicki, I’m thinking the floor or just better usage of a small space…the whole point is to use your senses, including realizing when you get to close to the edge…ah hell, might as well incorporate a sexy lustful fall mid-stroke into the madness as well, lol.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:41 pm
@Teacia
“…okay first I would like to accept the award, and share it with my dear blog buddy Humble One aka Hummy aka Black aka Humble One as Killa Black aka Killa aka Killa Bee…lol
I just wanted to point out how many transitions his name has gone through, lol.”
lol. I’m not as bad as Anitra.
@80’s – still not there
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:42 pm
“My “friend” keeps trying to get me to go to Detroit with him to a Pistons game, but that just doesn’t sound exciting to me”
it depends on who is playing, hey if you come we could double date!! you should come!! I already talked about pistons games with bf and he said he refuses to go to certain games lol. Im guessing they have to be playing someone important.
Yea im mad about not being able to go but for the money we was spending and the seats they had left it wasn’t worth it. The play is actually coming to detroit to and them tickets START at $180. + but the guy told me that the closer to the holiday it got the more expensive the tickets are. I still want to go when it comes back around.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Oh Humble it is so not your fault…you can completely put that one off on the treehouse, lol.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:47 pm
In general I role play a lot. We’ve tried all types of scene. He loves it and we have a good time. I definitely recommend the one night stand type of encounter…very hot and steamy. But you have to carry it out with fake names and everything. LOL
What’s the best role you’ve ever played?
I think one role we both enjoyed was the work scenario. (after hours of course..lmao no one is trying to get fired) I played his secretary…pencil skirt, hosiery with the back seam, bun, etc you know….Went very well….we christened his office and the boardroom…ahhh the memories…I wonder when if he laughs to himself now when he gives presentations in that room. We are so sneakily freaky.
What role do you dream of playing? Gosh there so many more I wouldn’t mind trying. One that I’m actually working on now though isn’t all that extreme. He travels a bit so something I’m planning to do for his next trip is to slip 3 little envelopes into his suitcase. One will say open me first…will contain a scented rose petal and note that says “I smell like this right now.” (Cheesy so I know he will laugh) The second envelop will contain a g-string with a note that says “I am wearing this right now.” (He will probably laugh again..lol). The envelope will be completely empty with a note that says….”sorry I’m not in there. But it is imperative to check your email at precisely 11pm-mahogany. For every moment you are late I will deduct 2 minutes from your time.” That will confuse him I sure but he’ll check it promptly (he’s has this thing about being on time LMAO). The email will simply be one line in red letters that says for your entertainment pleasure this evening please follow this link. The link will lead him to my webcam where he will find me wearing the exact same g-string, black satin gloves, sexy corset, a black satin ribbon tied in a bow around my neck, and stilettos. So all of that to say I’m going to role play the internet vixen.
I think he will crack the hell up at my silliness and yet be VERY intrigued at the same time. HAHAHA
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:48 pm
Ok so I totally have a crush on my boss…like that tingling feeling you get when you know you shouldn’t. He’s an older white guy, but funny and smart…and those who know me know that those are my kryptonite. No worries though he’s happily married with like 2 kids and thankfully there are no night projects involved with this position, lol.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:51 pm
Yes, it would be fun to go on a double date. but in all honesty, whenever I go to detroit, I like to go as a single. I *heart* detroit guys. They make me blush.
You still haven’t said what kind of things you guys are going to do in Chicago. Or is it just a romantic getaway?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:51 pm
Ok Mahagony! You may have set the standard!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:52 pm
Ok Mahagony! You may have set the standard!!
@ Holly…I agree… LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:54 pm
“ah hell, might as well incorporate a sexy lustful fall mid-stroke into the madness as well, lol.”
LMAO… and if we don’t have to make a trip to the ER, keep the party going.
“I think one role we both enjoyed was the work scenario.”
Claps hands for Ms. Mohagany… oh yes ma’am.. this is one of my fantasies as well.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:57 pm
“I *heart* detroit guys. They make me blush”
aww fly I heart you for hearting them lol. Well I can for sure take you out lol just say when and me and my girls will be johnny on the spot !! lol
We don’t have anything in particular planned, more like a romantic, lets get outta town and relax type of deal. We may just hit some clubs, do a little shopping n site seeing.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Comeback–Carmen Jones is one of my favorite movies.
Sidenote: Hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving. I’ve been busy doing newsletters and boy oh boy do they take up a lot of time. Today I’m free to at least work on some other graphics.
Ref Today’s Topic: To use old movies as examples, I would want to have the innocence of Irene Cara in Sparkle and the sexiness of Dorothy Dandridge in Carmen Jones…and a fine man to love me and protect me like Whitney Houston had in The Bodyguard or Diana Ross had in Lady Sings the Blues. Oh and yes, a few hot love scenes with the right leading man like those in Jason’s Lyric & How Stella Got Her Groove Back.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:01 pm
or like denzel in training day
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Hey Sheila! Thanksgiving was good… my waist is thanking my eating habits. LOL.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:02 pm
“I just went along with it to get some. I wasn’t into it.”
LOL Humble
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:02 pm
“Yes, it would be fun to go on a double date. but in all honesty, whenever I go to detroit, I like to go as a single. I *heart* detroit guys. They make me blush.”
I’m glad somebody hearts us.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:02 pm
Denzel in Training Day… Oh yes fly.
He’s so wrong, but oh so right.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:04 pm
Listening to Kanye on Imeem. Now I usually heart him but this album is some nonsense.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:04 pm
Lol Nicki. I went out of town. We didn’t do the traditional dinner this year. We had shrimp fetticine and my mom made pecan pies…and I made the garlic bread…but for Christmas, we’ll probably do the turkey/ham thing then.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:05 pm
@Sheila…. that sounds good. I’ve tried to get my fam to mix it up a bit but my mama won’t hear nothing of it.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:05 pm
Nicki I like the CD! LOL
@Shelia- hey girl how was your holiday?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Holister, the only song I can get into is Paranoid, and I’ve been playing that one over and over.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:10 pm
LOL! Girl I actually like the CD… I have been getting a lot of flack for liking it too!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:10 pm
“I’m glad somebody hearts us”
black u need to cut-it-out
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Nicki I was protesting but since we were on the road–eating light turned out best…didn’t even miss it to be honest.
Holly, I’m still trying to get caught up from not doing a doggone thing for four days but relax…lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Holister, I’m not gonna give you flack…. I’ve caught it for a lot of bands that I heart.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Hey Shelia!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Mahogany made me pee on myself
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:17 pm
YAY!!!
@Anitra why you peeing on urself??
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:19 pm
“Mahogany made me pee on myself”
*in sarcastic tone* You really know how to turn a man on huh?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:23 pm
“You really know how to turn a man on huh?”
that just made me lol and shoot snot out my nose!!!
black you stooopid
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:33 pm
Yall are a mess…
@ killa B….. I gave up on the email… i don’t know what happened.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:48 pm
“Mahogany made me pee on myself”
Mikki…R Kelly wants to talk to you…lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:51 pm
lmao Shelia I swear the tomfoolery is contagious round here
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 2:53 pm
can we name tomfoolery something else? like shaqandafoolery?? or ummm rayshawnfoolery???
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:02 pm
you can call is kimfoolery .. like Kim from RHOA
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:08 pm
Jolie thats a good one because it don’ get no stooopider than her lol
la la la, thats a preview of my singing skills for yall because I have historical blindness, I could lose my memory any minute!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:19 pm
@80s – check your mail
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:23 pm
“I think one role we both enjoyed was the work scenario. (after hours of course..lmao no one is trying to get fired) I played his secretary…pencil skirt, hosiery with the back seam, bun, etc you know….Went very well….we christened his office and the boardroom…ahhh the memories…I wonder when if he laughs to himself now when he gives presentations in that room. We are so sneakily freaky. ”
@ Mohogany..hey…ok this is hotness. Teacia might have to sit this se!x manual edition out (sorry girl). You wanna go half on a book LOL..
” think he will crack the hell up at my silliness and yet be VERY intrigued at the same time. HAHAHA”
silly-sexy chapter 1..love it.
@ Shelia..hey..Sparkle I vaguely remember this movie..didn’t it have like two or three pretty sisters in it. ***checks youtube*** it sure did…”giving him something he can feel”…i was 1 when this came out. WOW.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:24 pm
Jolster how bout you answer the question LOL
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:39 pm
@ Killa B- It’s checked….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:40 pm
@comeback: did you just chastize me? I think I feel hurt.. lol
*scans up to actually read the post*
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:44 pm
ok my role play: Kind of like South Pacific.. I play the damsel and a young verile rocked up solider comes and saves me and we make passionate love on the beach.. so on my next vacay to hopefully somewhere tropical with a man will be to play the damsel on the beach and he just comes and takes me RIGHT THERE! oww oww!
I also like to dress up as a 50’s-60’s pin-up girl.. red lip stick, full curls.. clutching my pearls in my hands as I look at at man coyly… but I do this in the club just about every weekend.. lol
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 3:57 pm
haha i like 40/50’s style pin ups. Leaves a bit to imaginate, as opposed to the maxim/king/smooth girls.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:09 pm
where yall at????
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:12 pm
i’m here
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:14 pm
@ Killa…
Oh okay… You know around these parts people be dipping out early… What time you get off today?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Im here
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:17 pm
@80s – i’m here till about 6
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:20 pm
@ Black….. Dang…..I’m out of here in a few……
@Holly… what time u get off?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:21 pm
I leave about 5:20ish sometimes 5:30.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:22 pm
Im jealous cause you are off early! I sent an email to my friends by the way to see what the haps were!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:22 pm
“*scans up to actually read the post*
”
@ Jolster..ZING
btw..nice role play mama.
im heres too.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:25 pm
If I could wake up early consistently I could leave early.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:28 pm
@ holly… Thanks girlie
@ Killa B….. I feel you.. I am so not a morning person but I just have to literally force myself to get up in the morning so I can be here when I’m supposed to be
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:31 pm
Killa Bee you are in IT right?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:31 pm
@WHY SO: yes sir.. give the mini-mart not the whole grocery store.. hmm i need a better analogy..
I give them a boutique not a department store..
i like that better…
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:31 pm
You are sooooo welcome!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:34 pm
@80’s
“I feel you.. I am so not a morning person but I just have to literally force myself to get up in the morning so I can be here when I’m supposed to be”
I feel you. I have 3 alarm clocks with 2 alarms on each of them to wake me up.
@Holly
“Killa Bee you are in IT right?”
I am in engineering. Well I should say engineering-lite. The jobs seems to be moving me more to being a supervisor. Are you in IT?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:40 pm
No I am in Financial Services… I deal with Shareholders. I am kinda lightweight talking to this one guy who was in engineering. He use to work for Ford a few years ago.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:42 pm
Why did he leave engineering?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:45 pm
He said he got bored with it…. then he went and got his MBA and is in Finance/Banking
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:52 pm
@Holly – Are you pretty familiar with stock purchasing plans, 401ks, etc.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 4:55 pm
A little… not a total genius on it…. My company deals with the shareholder proxy voting. What’s your question I may be able to help.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:03 pm
@Holly – I want to change my 401k to get it as aggressive as possible. I just wanted to know if that is smart to do now.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:10 pm
I wouldn’t do it at this moment. I would definitely wait. Are you currently taking part in your company’s 401K plan?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:16 pm
Yes I am. Why would you say wait? I was thinking that now is the time to do it but I wasn’t sure. Thats why I am asking different people.
I also wanted to know is there a like a “rule of thumb” number or something as far as the amount of shares of stock to buy in a company to actually make a decent profit?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:25 pm
I say wait because for one we are officially in a recession and two mutual funds have been hit the hardest. A lot of people are losing their retirement savings and investments due to the economy crisis.
I am a conservative investor and before all this hit I was having 4% of my salary going towards my 401K, but since you are wanting to be more aggressive maybe do about 7-8%. What is your current contribution amount??
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:35 pm
Right now i’m at about 5% I want to change it to 10% next year.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:36 pm
WHEW!!! OK!!! I say wait to we get outta this funk seriously!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:37 pm
I’m no financial expert but Holly and the other financial experts are saying NOT to make any risky investments right now–Isadly a lot of folks have lost some of their retirement money…you’ll do better taking the money and putting it aside somewhere else like a regular savings account but put it in one where you have to keep a high balance so you won’t be tempted to touch it.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:40 pm
Yeah, Killer Bee look into getting an ING savings account… I actually started putting the money that would’ve went into my 401K account in there and stopped contributing to my actual 401K
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:41 pm
Interesting convo…..
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:45 pm
@Holly – I have an insured money market account ans IRA. I guess I would be better off putting that extra 5% in one of those accounts than this unstable market?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Yeah that is soooo much better just because it is insured… Is it insured by FDIC?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Both of the accounts are insured by NCUA.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 5:56 pm
Holly you and Mik should guest blog on where to put the money. I think she’s more debt reduction/elimination and you are more investment savvy.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:00 pm
@ comeback.. That’s a great idea… I would love to hear more about investing….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:15 pm
awww… i feel kinda lame cuz my role would be as a mom with a 6 month old baby laying on the grass with my dogs and husband in front of our huge house laughing… (sigh)
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:18 pm
@ 80s Imma contact Holster and Mikster and see what they think about a podcast on blogtalk.
Hi Ladebelle..welcome..that is a sweet roleplay I love it.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Hellooo Ladebelle welcome to the treehouse!
comeback, a podcast would be fun hook it up!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 6:42 pm
i will mikster..but i wanna make it like SERIOUS financial talk…do you think we can leave our vagin#a’s out of the stock market, dollar cost averaging and debt elimination?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 7:12 pm
hey comeback that would be a great idea! a nice little switch and diverse conversation in the treehouse
Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 9:23 pm
@ HOLLYGOLIGHTLY:
Not really girl just an active imagination. LOL
@ 80’S BABY
Don’t co-sign just yet…I’m rather zany LOL
@ NICKISUNSHINE
Just make it do what it do, chica
@ANITRA
Its okay just don’t let it seep through your clothing. LOL