On my count...and don't cheat.
I still love watching Jamie Foxx’s video ” Just Like Me”, mainly because some of the competitive scenes are VERY familiar.
I’m sorry, but if a man asks me to go bowling with him, I’m not going to be very interested in his questions about where I see myself in 5 years, while I concentrate and position the bowling ball down the 1-3 pocket. You took me bowling, I’m here to win right now. You can hold my hand in the car, where I can also give you my 10 year life goal projections.
If the sparks are there, we may even kiss (treehouse ladies..did you read that we may even KISS, not do the butterball bed tango).
Most men get a kick out of it. I can’t help that part of me. Twister, jeopardy, chutes and ladders, tennis, Atari, batttle ship…I’m here to beat your @zz, figuratively. We can talk later.
My competitive and playful nature does have an off switch. Inside of a bonifide relationship and outside of butt naked uno, we are a couple, a team “us against the world”. But I’ve really been thinking quite critically about the laws of attraction. On a basic level, yes, like attracts like. Mean people shouldn’t at all be puzzled as to why they can’t meet and keep a geniually nice person around, and why that relationship might not last very long. But on some superficial levels, I don’t want a man JUST LIKE ME.
Just like me NOT…
1. Sports: Outside of tennis, I hate sports. Football, Basketball et. al. I hear nothing but crickets. I don’t understand it. My attention span can’t really tolerate long bouts of it. I just can’t… I’ve tried to at least watch for 5 minutes with my mouth shut, but my mind wanders or I start to ask lots of questions, like “ that guy’s butt is really big and those pants are sooooo tight, has a player ever split them running?”
This is usually when family (and I come from a football fanatical family with a 49′ers player back in the late 70s), friends, and even once a boyfriend asked me politely to go upstairs or shopping or something. But my man NEEDS TO LOVE SPORTS. I usually have to figure out how to deal with and love a sports enthusiast, his schedule, where in the house I need to be AWAY from him. But he has to love it. I dated a man who hated sports once and he was too much like me. Too much estrogen and batchiness. Something and I can’t even put my finger on. It seemed so off balance and out of wack.
2. The strong silent yet direct type. This man isn’t a pushover, but he’s not going toe to toe with everybody ALL THE TIME. My male pet peeve is a man who has to answer every little rebuttal. Overly sensitive. “You hurt my feelings”. “I want to talk about {this little injustice that happened to me today}. I like for a man to be able to choose his words and his battles. And even be able to tell me to cool it sometimes. But note not every man knows how to really do that. lol.
3. A non-cooker. I actually would prefer men who don’t cook. Mainly because I’ve never really met a man who could burn. I’m not exactly a kitchen Nazi, but I can’t stand idly by while you mess up my kitchen thinking you know how to whip up the most perfect beef stroganoff to feed me something that tastes like warmed over @zz in a can (true story).
This is superficial Tuesday. We can’t be deep everyday, so what are your superficial or even not so superficial requirements that aren’t JUST LIKE YOU.
195 Comments
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:53 am
hey treehouse gang! love u all
let’s see..i love shoes..i love a man in good shoes but me and my man cannot both have a shoe fetish (bad look)
he must love sports or some sort of weird outdoor activity that I hate so that he can teach me or try to convince me to try it (rock climbing fly fishing..something)
that’s all for now I’m really sleepy….ill be back
(turns the treehouse light out)
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:36 am
“let’s see..i love shoes..i love a man in good shoes but me and my man cannot both have a shoe fetish (bad look)”
@ Akua…i really wish a dude would HAVE 50-11 hundred shoes..that would hurt my feelings..he’s out of pocket. totally.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:50 am
@dashing:deff out of pocket ..more then metro maybe? I am the self proclaimed owner of abt 150 pairs of shoes. (prob more). my man? will have maybe 10 or 20 pair. mixed variety some sneaks, some prada’s, timbs, etc. however he needn’t have anywhere neer what I have…meaning if he has 80 or 90 pairs? not gonna work!! lol
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 7:02 am
I have more shoes than my woman, and she has a lot.
I’m glad she isn’t like me when it comes to paying bills and organization because I suck at it, I got mail from September that I haven’t even opened. If something seems important from that front I’ll give it to her or ask her to handle it for me because I will forget or wait until the bill is too late to try and pay.
I’m glad she loves to cook cuz I don’t like cooking. I’m also glad she has more tolerance than me on certain things.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 7:45 am
Not just like me requirements:
1. Masculine duties – all yours: Sure I can lay a floor, change a tire, and even shovel snow or take out the trash. But I want HIM to do it. If it is manly, masculine or dirty – I am not doing it if I have a man.
2. I support the Shoe Fettish comments above. He can not own more shoes than I do.
3. I want him to love to shop, because aside from shoes, I HATE IT. I break out in sweats and trembles. It just works my nerve. Too much to look at. If I shop, I tend to overpay because I can handle smaller boutiques and since I don’t shop – I don’t know a good deal.
*sigh.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:28 am
Hi Comeback and All!!!
Let’s see, one thing that he has to be that’s opposite of me is know how to tell a joke. He should have a great sense of humor. I love a man who can keep a smile on my face. I can’t tell a joke even if you gave me the punch line.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:32 am
I’m with BAM on the masculine duties–I would even add, I hoped he would take the initiative to wash my car, change my oil, make sure my tire pressure is on point—I want a man who doesn’t mind taking care of “manly” things and a man with the good traits of my father basically.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:41 am
I agree with all your numbers, although I will watch football with the man and I love a man that can cook..
Tenderoni called two weekends ago and said, “what do u like about me?” LOL.. I couldn’t tell him. We haven’t talked since. I was merely keeping him around bc I was bored and lonely… after the “lasagna incident,” I haven’t felt the same about him.
Any-t-who,
1. I need my man to be stronger than me. I’m pretty stone faced but for my man I want to be able to be weak. I need him to be strong enough to be ok with that.
2. I need my man to be more financial and business minded than me. I suck at it… paying bills and managing funds does not hold my interest.
3. I need him to be more outgoing and creative than me, otherwise we are going to be playing, “what do you want to do? No, what do You want to do? What do YOU want to do?” a whole lot in life.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:42 am
” want him to love to shop, because aside from shoes, I HATE IT. I break out in sweats and trembles. It just works my nerve. Too much to look at. If I shop, I tend to overpay because I can handle smaller boutiques and since I don’t shop – I don’t know a good deal.”
Me too! I always have to call my girl up before I buy so she can tell me if I’m getting raped or not. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:50 am
That’s right. I prefer masculine qualities. I do think he should do manly things…car/house maintenance.
Yeah he should have shoes. But not as many as many.
I would also like it if he was interested in something (not necessarily sports) that he can teach me…
And can he please be kinda stocky? I don’t like super skinny men.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 8:58 am
OHH!!! I knew I was missing something…NMH’s chick is all about paying bills and all that jazz, which I can do…but if we have substantial debt I need a man with a business mind who can show me how to pay sh!t off…and who wants to work with me to have something. He needs to be down to earth but you know, want some materials.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:24 am
@ Akua
“@dashing:deff out of pocket ..more then metro maybe? I am the self proclaimed owner of abt 150 pairs of shoes. (prob more). my man? will have maybe 10 or 20 pair. mixed variety some sneaks, some prada’s, timbs, etc. however he needn’t have anywhere neer what I have…meaning if he has 80 or 90 pairs? not gonna work!! lol
”
I have alot of shoes too.. they have their own closet YIKES..and a closet at Mama Comebacks..I dare a negro to own more pair..that would really be how you doin to the uttmost!!!
@ Never Mind Him aka NoNo…why the new screen name what happened to your old..You got a new PGF you aint tellin nobody about. And you aint checked mail from Sept??? I hope your credit aint bad? I gotta call Mik on you?
@ Bam “3. I want him to love to shop, because aside from shoes, I HATE IT. I break out in sweats and trembles. It just works my nerve. Too much to look at. If I shop, I tend to overpay because I can handle smaller boutiques and since I don’t shop – I don’t know a good deal.”
This is blaspheme…a man who loves to shop??? he be all up in the mall leading you around ? No ma’am LOL..
@ Sheila..tell a joke? LOL..what if you THINK your funny..like me. Love the new book coverbtw..you the hardest working “authoress” (wk cite Maya Wilkes) in the world.
@ Nik “2. I need my man to be more financial and business minded than me. I suck at it… paying bills and managing funds does not hold my interest”
I tend to agree here too. But we women gotta keep our money right tho..this is something im working on in 2009?..could you handle a guy that put you on an allowance? I know a working woman whose husband dictates what she spends?
@ Jac “He needs to be down to earth but you know, want some materials.”
yeah ..i think im down…but i want someone MORE down to me..its a lot of bougie @zz men on the comeup and i aint figured out where they come from. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:28 am
“I tend to agree here too. But we women gotta keep our money right tho..this is something im working on in 2009?..could you handle a guy that put you on an allowance? I know a working woman whose husband dictates what she spends?”
Oh yes ma’am… this is def a goal of mine in the ‘09. Not that kind of man… I’m not able to handle anyone telling me what to do and I won’t leave it all up to him. Sorry, I was fuzzy. I just need him more interested in finances… I need him looking at the papers and telling me about what we need to invest in and whatnots…. I need us to get together and plan a budget, not me doing all the work.
In my past, I worked for a collection agency… I did legal collection and probate (which is the debt after someone is deceased)… there was nothing more sadder or pathetic to me than talking to a wife who, “had no clue about this card because “he” always handled the money.” I promised I would never be this woman.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:30 am
“I did legal collection and probate (which is the debt after someone is deceased)… there was nothing more sadder or pathetic to me than talking to a wife who, “had no clue about this card because “he” always handled the money.” I promised I would never be this woman.”
@ Sunny..ok..this is how stupid my @zz is..i thought when somone died..so did their debt..outside of like real property like a house or a car, but if they aint here ???
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:32 am
“@ Sunny..ok..this is how stupid my @zz is..i thought when somone died..so did their debt..outside of like real property like a house or a car, but if they aint here ???”
Girl, no… it depends on your state. Some states have it move on to the spouse (even if their name wasn’t even on the card) and some roll over as estate debt which then has be be stuck in probate and that’s a whole different mess.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:52 am
1. Masculine duties – all yours: Sure I can lay a floor, change a tire, and even shovel snow or take out the trash. But I want HIM to do it. If it is manly, masculine or dirty – I am not doing it if I have a man.
And let the Church say Amen. I’m a super advocate of this…prolly cause my Daddy used to take care of this type of stuff for me when I was home.
A great communicator…cause I think I suck at it unless it’s written. If you can draw me out, I’ll be ever so grateful.
I’d like for him to be a great planner as far as the household and trips and such. I hate even thinking about that kind of stuff.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:53 am
“A great communicator…cause I think I suck at it unless it’s written. If you can draw me out, I’ll be ever so grateful.”
me too J Boogie… never, I repeat, NEVER ask me to talk about, “how I feel.” LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:05 am
@ JaJa “A great communicator…cause I think I suck at it unless it’s written. If you can draw me out, I’ll be ever so grateful.”
i got this covered coming and going. I think i could bring waring nations together..sometimes tho i need for the right man to say…”chill” mama cita. LOL. again ive only met one dude who could really tell me this in a way that i really respected him at the end of the day.
@ Sunny.. God helps the gentlemen calling that asks me this..LOL..cause goshy lee…i always have an answer LOL..the good news is its usually good.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:08 am
“i got this covered coming and going. I think i could bring waring nations together..sometimes tho i need for the right man to say…”chill” mama cita. LOL. again ive only met one dude who could really tell me this in a way that i really respected him at the end of the day.”
Not just say it but I need someone who will just look at me and I know…I just know to calm my arse down. Turns. me. on.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:09 am
“@ Sunny.. God helps the gentlemen calling that asks me this..LOL..cause goshy lee…i always have an answer LOL..the good news is its usually good.”
LOL… I always end up with a blank stare… kinda like when someone says, “what’s up?”
WTF is Mik?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:12 am
“Not just say it but I need someone who will just look at me and I know…I just know to calm my arse down. Turns. me. on.
”
i got one better Jac…a man who can tell me to shut the fyck up..oh if im feeling you.***bites my hand**..it is on..for real. LOL
“LOL… I always end up with a blank stare… kinda like when someone says, “what’s up?””
i agree. Mik prollly mad at us from yellin at her 50-11 times about “S”/
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:15 am
“i got one better Jac…a man who can tell me to shut the fyck up..oh if im feeling you.***bites my hand**..it is on..for real. LOL”
HAHA! Right..L kills me w/ “JAC STOP NOW!” and slams his hand down on the damned dashboard, dresser, whatever…makes me wanna hang from the ceiling and do that shat!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:17 am
Not just say it but I need someone who will just look at me and I know…I just know to calm my arse down. Turns. me. on.
Oooohhh that silent checking…I’m with Jac!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:18 am
“i got one better Jac…a man who can tell me to shut the fyck up..oh if im feeling you.***bites my hand**..it is on..for real. LOL”
Dang, I have NEVAH had this happen, but I have fantasies!!!!
“Mik prollly mad at us from yellin at her 50-11 times about “S”/”
I hope not… we’re just here to tell eachother the truth~~~
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:18 am
“makes me wanna hang from the ceiling and do that shat!”
Why did this make me think of an orangatang??? jac STOPPIT. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:21 am
Jada-I knew I’d get an Amen from you!
Nic-Girl…the freaks come out whenever
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:21 am
minor disclainer on shyt the fyckup….this does NOT WORK and is disrespectful when i really have something to say and i have my serious face on..
if we just bullshattin around..its cool.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:35 am
CBG-You are absolutely correct. If I am seriously saying something this can result in me walking away.
PERMANENTLY
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:38 am
Jac i just had to put that out there i dont want no yaya’s particularly yaya’s thinking…oh yeah Comeback says she thinks men should be telling us to shut the fack up and what nots.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:40 am
“Jac i just had to put that out there i dont want no yaya’s particularly yaya’s thinking…oh yeah Comeback says she thinks men should be telling us to shut the fack up and what nots”
LMAO.. hopefully they wont! But a good disclaimer for CYA at any rate.
Where’s our testoterone Jac?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:41 am
Girl you know you have to do that.
But nah, I understood your statement!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:56 am
“Where’s our testoterone Jac?”
Ummm…one is class and the other is running errands.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:01 am
“Ummm…one is class and the other is running errands.”
Dang we only have two sets of testes… we need more for laughters sake. LOL…..
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:04 am
“Ummm…one is class and the other is running errands.”
Dang we only have two sets of testes… we need more for laughters sake. LOL…..
I miss the menses too. I wonder how NMH is liking his classes so far.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:05 am
“Dang we only have two sets of testes… we need more for laughters sake. LOL…..
”
we have Tempie too..but he only comes around when everybody’s dead sleep..i think i may start to do major updates and stuff at night…
that seems to be when eone is around..with the recession and everything,people need to be bout they money.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:06 am
NONO was on earlier..
but what does everyone think abou nightly posts and blogs..maybe some blog tv..would everyone still come around?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:07 am
CBG-That would be great. I get bored at night.
We do have more…I just don’t know where they all are. I mean..well..Hugh’s working…’bout that paper.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:07 am
“we have Tempie too..but he only comes around when everybody’s dead sleep..i think i may start to do major updates and stuff at night…
that seems to be when eone is around..with the recession and everything,people need to be bout they money”
True True.
I’m not on that often at night because I’m in school at nights.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:09 am
“I’m not on that often at night because I’m in school at nights.
”
what about 10ish??
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:12 am
“what about 10ish??”
LOL.. Comeback, I go to bed at 9:50. LMAO…. I’m not even jokin! After I get home from school, I get my clothes ready for work, shower, read a little, and go to sleep! (sad!)
Jac is up pretty late though… she’d prolly like it…
What do u think about that JAC?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:13 am
1oish is great!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:14 am
Humble is a late nighter too.. he’s prolly like it…
It seems that I am the gramma on here. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:18 am
Lol you are
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:21 am
Jac: Nic needs her beauty sleep. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:21 am
Sunny pull it up 9:45???
im just really getting my night life at 945…i used to go to bed early now im a night owl..
question for the treehouse??? would you seriously consider dating a 2520 dude? like if one rolled up on yall tomorrow?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:25 am
cbg-i would consider dating a 2520- – - one recently came back into my life and i realized how great it could possibly maybe be
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:29 am
“Sunny pull it up 9:45???
im just really getting my night life at 945…i used to go to bed early now im a night owl..”
I am such an early bird.. girl, I have to take a nap on the nights that I do go out late.
“question for the treehouse??? would you seriously consider dating a 2520 dude? like if one rolled up on yall tomorrow?”
He’d have to be something special…. I tried dating a 2520 not to long ago and sad as it is, he turned me off from the entire race. He was too persistant and called me too much….
I’d date a spanish guy though! Oh… and perhaps an Asian…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:29 am
I’m a TRUE night owl. So night posts are cool. Especially considering when I’m winding down I lay in the bed with my laptop watching the telly. Is anybody addicted to NCIS like me?
question for the treehouse??? would you seriously consider dating a 2520 dude? like if one rolled up on yall tomorrow?
*In KeyCo voice* Absolutely NOT. Simply b/c I’m just not attracted. Outside of famous folks…I have yet to come across a 2520 that I’m attracted to.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:33 am
@ Jac ..really..hmm
@ Sunny “I tried dating a 2520 not to long ago and sad as it is, he turned me off from the entire race. He was too persistant and called me too much….
”
i quit you …”THE ENTIRE RACE” LOL
@ JaJa
“*In KeyCo voice* Absolutely NOT. Simply b/c I’m just not attracted”…she that voice from Frankie..
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:37 am
“i quit you …”THE ENTIRE RACE” LOL”
LOL.. He was weird… plus maybe I read too much but he always wanted to do lunch. I told him that my lunches are usually done at my desk because they are so short and offered for us to do dinner on more than one occasion but he acted like I didn’t say anything… so that got my wheels turning and I figured he was prolly married or something or didn’t want to be seen out with a black girl, since lunch can be explained away if I was a “client.”
Wheewww. deep breath.
what about u comeback?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:38 am
@ Jac ..really..hmm
My first formal boyfriend was a 2520…he and all friends treated me amazing and still do. To the point where they would have all loved me to pieces if I hadn’t gone to college. And the funny thing was it was them and me and this other chick (also a 2520)…She said they treated her like one of them…and me like a queen..they couldn’t help it though..said I had a something they just loved…and there was never. any. sex.
He was like I cannot disrespect you like that…against the whole d@mn stereotype
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 11:56 am
I can’t lie, I need a woman who is more organized than me, I get the work done, but ultimately I’m just not good at setting set goals and tasks for the day, I just sort of go with the flow.
Also someone who isn’t so nonchalant. I used to be a hothead and my mom got on me to the point that i’ve become sort of “hakuna matada” about everything. So occasionally I need a swift kick to the butt.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:03 pm
Hey yall!!!!!!
One of my biggest things is that I can make an issue seem bigger than what it is… And I need a man to be like I know you ain’t trippin off of that. That’s nothing…..
And I need for him to do all that manly stuff around the house. And dealing with the car when it’s broke. Ha ha…. I hate having to deal with car issues because I’m always pulling out my third eye to see if they’re trying to get over on me….That’s all I can think of now.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:08 pm
” i’ve become sort of “hakuna matada” about everything. So occasionally I need a swift kick to the butt.”
I will never be singing that dumb song in my head now.
Hey 80s!!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Oh and Comeback.. One of my best friends just got engaged to a 2520…. I don’t think I could do it but it worked out well for her….
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Hey 80s, Hey Jr.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:17 pm
I just sort of go with the flow.
For the most part I’m a go with the flower to Jr. That’s why my man’s need to be a good planner.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:39 pm
GIRL! That is ME right there! When we ar playing a game…I play to win…I got a slick mouth…I like to talk trash and play around…but iIam thinking in my head…”I’m bout to dust you off, you know that right?” lol… in a relationship I am a team player, but I will never LET a guy win…if you do, it’s because you were better at it than me..this time…lol…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:45 pm
heeeey COMEBACK….
first of all…I REALLY like this guy right now that doesn’t LOVE sports and he is more MAN than I have come across in a long time…ok…to answer the question (not) just like me…I just want a man that is more man than I am…does that make sense?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 12:54 pm
@comeback
No honey.. I don’t want him leading me around the mall. I want to know I can send him and he will be okay and our bills will still be paid.
Hey I’m honest.
I hate shopping. I have anxiety attacks.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:16 pm
@ Goodeness HI..welcome to the blog lol..
“first of all…I REALLY like this guy right now that doesn’t LOVE sports and he is more MAN than I have come across in a long time…ok…to answer the question (not) just like me…I just want a man that is more man than I am…does that make sense?”
First of all…wth??? “more of a man than I have ever come across in a long time” ??? wow…i have never ever run across this ever…there are men out there that even admit they hate sports and im sorry its all suspect to me. But he doesn’t like ANY sports NONE AT ALL??? im puzzled.
@ BAM “I hate shopping. I have anxiety attacks.
I hear you lol..but i just got this picture of a dude running around with awhole lot of shoppingbags…beating me to the stores.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:20 pm
“I hear you lol..but i just got this picture of a dude running around with awhole lot of shoppingbags…beating me to the stores.”
That guy wears panties, Comeback. LMAO
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Hi Treehouse. I’m in training for my new job but I been lurking when the presenter isn’t by my computer.
Crap she just came back in. Gotta type fast.
All my friends say that I’m going to end up with a 2520 but I don’t even like them like that and my bf is chocolate!
I’ll come back ltr with my thoughts on the topic. Gotta go. No time to spell check.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:29 pm
Good Afternoon People,
“We can’t be deep everyday, so what are your superficial or even not so superficial requirements that aren’t JUST LIKE YOU.”
1. narrow waist and wide hips and a round high backside (obviously I am a man so I dont have these features)
2. a woman that doesnt need to have everything the she wants it to be before she makes a move – I am so guilty of being like this. I am working on changing.
3. A woman that can dance. ( I cant dance worth ish)
4. A woman that can cook. (I can cook some things but my skills are limited
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Humble, u can’t dance???? So, do you have rhythm?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:32 pm
“I wonder how NMH is liking his classes so far.”
Hey Jada! I’ve only been to one thus far but I like it. It was cool being actually interested in the information I was learning for once.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Whats the deal with women not wanting a dude with a lot of shoes? I have had more shoes than most women I have dealt with.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:32 pm
2. a woman that doesnt need to have everything the she wants it to be before she makes a move – I am so guilty of being like this. I am working on changing.
I like this.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:34 pm
“A woman that can dance. ( I cant dance worth ish)”
I shouldve added that too. Only dancing I know how to do is simulated s3x & humpin when the booty mixes come on, and I aint did that since high school.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:34 pm
@Nicki
“Humble, u can’t dance???? So, do you have rhythm?”
I have rhythm. I just can’t dance.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:34 pm
“I shouldve added that too. Only dancing I know how to do is simulated s3x & humpin when the booty mixes come on, and I aint did that since high school”
NMH: Now I need u to never do this move in public!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:37 pm
“I wonder how NMH is liking his classes so far.”
Hey Jada! I’ve only been to one thus far but I like it. It was cool being actually interested in the information I was learning for once.
That’s great! It certainly makes for a better class when the interest is there. You have any night classes or you just go during the day?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:38 pm
“@Nicki
“Humble, u can’t dance???? So, do you have rhythm?”
I have rhythm. I just can’t dance.”
@humble: aw ok… just checkin for those s3xual women out there.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:41 pm
@Nicki
“Humble, u can’t dance???? So, do you have rhythm?”
I have rhythm. I just can’t dance.
If it ain’t my patented two step I can’t help ya. I’m too damn old to be gyrating the way these kids do. Nor popping my cooch open for the whole free world like Be Non Ce.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:43 pm
“You have any night classes or you just go during the day?”
My classes are in the day. I try not to have night classes, I’m much more attentive in the morning.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Im on two calls right now..
HI 80s..
imma hit you off line in a sec.
Junior i agree..
“Also someone who isn’t so nonchalant. I used to be a hothead and my mom got on me to the point that i’ve become sort of “hakuna matada” about everything. So occasionally I need a swift kick to the butt.
”
me too im all over the place tho..on some things im very whatever whatever..onothers..i need somebody to be like ..chill wit dat.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:45 pm
“Nor popping my cooch open for the whole free world like Be Non Ce.”
Funny as all get out!
I don’t do much but I can move my feet and the hips… but I ain’t doing any routines out on the floor either!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:45 pm
“You have any night classes or you just go during the day?”
My classes are in the day. I try not to have night classes, I’m much more attentive in the morning.
I feel you. My attention is MUCH better at night…but I still hated night classes b/c there was so many other things I would have rather been doing. Besides they’re usually longer.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Im on two calls right now..
HI 80s..
imma hit you off line in a sec.
Junior i agree..
be back..
I’m sure this has been covered, but what do you do CBG?
And anybody got any ideas how I can work from home? I’m tired of this 9 to 5 thing. I want my old schedule back.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:50 pm
“Nor popping my cooch open for the whole free world like Be Non Ce.”
Funny as all get out!
I don’t do much but I can move my feet and the hips… but I ain’t doing any routines out on the floor either!
No House Party routines Nic? LOL…I think that would be fun. Dances ain’t what they used to be. They never play slow songs anymore.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:54 pm
“No House Party routines Nic? LOL…I think that would be fun. Dances ain’t what they used to be. They never play slow songs anymore.”
Tag teams… no way NMH.. don’t get me wrong, the dancing I do participate in makes me sweat still.
U are right, there’s no slow songs. But that doesn’t stop the men from trying to grind u even still!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:55 pm
i want to work from home too
thanks for checking humble’s skills nic…can’t have him bump bump bump all willy nilly
and JADA! GIRL! u ain’t neveer lied..i cannot be catching walls
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:56 pm
J Boogie: That A whole is still texting me about my toes in his mouth. LMAO…. I told him to quit. at this point it’s just funny..
And the other ex sent me another pic of his wang last night. WTF????
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:57 pm
“thanks for checking humble’s skills nic…can’t have him bump bump bump all willy nilly”
Never that Jac! Never Willy Nilly.
Tenderoni once was trying to demonstrate something to me… I guess how he was hitting it with his ex and it was so freakin corny… total turnoff. He looked like a geek who’d never had s3x with anything other than a blow up doll.
Oh how I need a man with some swagger. LOL.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 1:59 pm
ok i got my call on speaker…and gave my little spiel..
where was I??
@ Daisy..
“All my friends say that I’m going to end up with a 2520 but I don’t even like them like that and my bf is chocolate!”
i need deep meditation for this..Im not sureiwouldbeabletodoit..
@Hummy
“3. A woman that can dance. ( I cant dance worth ish)”
you not 2520 are you??
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:02 pm
“That A whole is still texting me about my toes in his mouth. LMAO…. I told him to quit. at this point it’s just funny..”
I just ate a hot dog…and I am thoroughly disgusted.
“Tenderoni once was trying to demonstrate something to me… I guess how he was hitting it with his ex and it was so freakin corny… total turnoff. He looked like a geek who’d never had s3x with anything other than a blow up doll.”
I love a man who can really, really dance…have a friend from STX…me and him get down on the damned ground…really into it like…I wonder I just wonder
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:04 pm
“I love a man who can really, really dance…have a friend from STX…me and him get down on the damned ground…really into it like…I wonder I just wonder
”
@ Jac LOL…see i dont want john travolta (rip to his son)…no sat. nite fever..just a little cute one two step and then twirl me around a few times..thats all.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:08 pm
“I love a man who can really, really dance…have a friend from STX…me and him get down on the damned ground…really into it like…I wonder I just wonder
”
@ Jac LOL…see i dont want john travolta (rip to his son)…no sat. nite fever..just a little cute one two step and then twirl me around a few times..thats all.
CBG-We wind…like slow wind…dat’s what we do…he puts his hand around my waist we drink some rum and get to it
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:09 pm
J Boogie: That A whole is still texting me about my toes in his mouth. LMAO…. I told him to quit. at this point it’s just funny..
And the other ex sent me another pic of his wang last night. WTF????
WHY do men feel the need to send you pics of their privates? I never understood that one.
I love a man who can really, really dance…have a friend from STX…me and him get down on the damned ground…really into it like…I wonder I just wonder.
Jac I LOVE to watch my homeboy dance. His rythem is off the chains!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:16 pm
@ Jac “CBG-We wind…like slow wind…dat’s what we do…he puts his hand around my waist we drink some rum and get to it
”
imma tell yo mama….LOL
@ JaJa “WHY do men feel the need to send you pics of their privates? I never understood that one.”
i dont understand that either not fyckin cool at all..I had a guy who is really my friend send me a pic .. dyck pick unsolicated …and i was totally disgusted and disrepsected (a..i don’t go around talking to any man about his dack esp. one im not involved with b…even if we are involved,please dont send me it) and weve known each other for more than 6 years …so im thinkin to myself..his @zz HAD TO HAVE BEEN DRUNK..yuck.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:18 pm
“CBG-We wind…like slow wind…dat’s what we do…he puts his hand around my waist we drink some rum and get to it”
s3x on the dancefloor Jac!
“WHY do men feel the need to send you pics of their privates? I never understood that one.”
He got mad bc I wouldn’t send him one, talking about, “but I sent one to you.” I said, I didn’t ask for it either. FREAK
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Do you see the pic on my site?! Under who we are! That’s me and my teetotaler MAMA on BO?URBON ST! I am DRUNK SMURF! in that pic
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:23 pm
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:25 pm
“He got mad bc I wouldn’t send him one, talking about, “but I sent one to you.” I said, I didn’t ask for it either. FREAK
”
^5..i had to pray and rebuke that nastiness off my iphone..like do i LOOK like a woman who is down for this foolishness and from a man who is supposed to be my friend? wtf
@ Jac..im gonna beat ur arse for calling mama Jac a teetotaler !!! you get a spankin for that.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:27 pm
@ CBG and Sunny
I’m beginning to think men are under the mistaken impression that we are super visual creatures like them. Ummm….NO! And miss me with the unsolicited pics of your swinging tree trunk. If I want to see it…you’ll KNOW!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:27 pm
“5..i had to pray and rebuke that nastiness off my iphone..like do i LOOK like a woman who is down for this foolishness and from a man who is supposed to be my friend? wtf”
Exactly.. that’s why I question our friendship.. I’m a friend to him but I can’t say the same in return.
what is a teetotaler?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:27 pm
@ Jac..ok you don’t get a spankin no more for that “Switch” song…
what you know bout that..
you should check the youtubes for the debarge life stories on TVONE..
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:27 pm
“@ Jac..im gonna beat ur arse for calling mama Jac a teetotaler !!! you get a spankin for that.”
WHAT?! Dat ain’t a bad thing…she don’t drink..not even a sip…EVER…she’s not a partyer
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:28 pm
^5..i had to pray and rebuke that nastiness off my iphone.
Whooo Lawd…I think I’m finna join my Daddy on that one! LOL!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:30 pm
Ooooh Jac what Switch song is it? I can’t listen @ work. I love that song I call Your name and the remake by Ne-Yo.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:30 pm
@Comeback
“you not 2520 are you??”
No but I have been accused of it. My brother swears that when my parents sent me to that expensive private school with the 2520s I lost all my soul. He says I didnt get it back until I went to public school.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:31 pm
“WHAT?! Dat ain’t a bad thing…she don’t drink..not even a sip…EVER…she’s not a partyer
”
@ Jac..don’t laugh…i always thought a teetotler was the opposite..Jesus was a webster..im sorry i was wrong.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:33 pm
@Jada
“I think I’m finna join my Daddy on that one!”
LOL. You said finna. Sounds like the Oklahoma side of my family.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:33 pm
“If I want to see it…you’ll KNOW!”
[takes picture of weewee and hovers finger over "send" button, waiting for Jada's approval]
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:33 pm
“No but I have been accused of it. My brother swears that when my parents sent me to that expensive private school with the 2520s I lost all my soul. He says I didnt get it back until I went to public school.”
My buddy Carlton over here…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:35 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPBH57BWhpE
Love this!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:38 pm
LOL. You said finna. Sounds like the Oklahoma side of my family.
Humster that’s the country in me coming out full force my Dear. NC stand up! LOL.
“If I want to see it…you’ll KNOW!”
[takes picture of weewee and hovers finger over "send" button, waiting for Jada's approval]
NoMo….*points to the corner*. Do not pass go, and do not collect 200 dollars!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:42 pm
“[takes picture of weewee and hovers finger over "send" button, waiting for Jada's approval]
NoMo….*points to the corner*. Do not pass go, and do not collect 200 dollars!”
NMH: U are some kinda freaky… I could see u doing this.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:43 pm
Jesus be a spanish to english translation book…
this teacherr comes in last night and gets right down to it… mind u, I ain’t had spanish in three semesters.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Why when I read what JaJa wrote about Dack pics..i thought about NoNo..i must be psychic cause I think NoNo has taken those kinds of pics before.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:47 pm
“cause I think NoNo has taken those kinds of pics before.”
Seeee, I am not the only one!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:53 pm
“Seeee, I am not the only one!
”
***crickets*** goes the crowd..lol
gone to lunch..
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:53 pm
“U are some kinda freaky… I could see u doing this.”
I would.
“I think NoNo has taken those kinds of pics before.”
I have.
But I wont just send them to you without knowing if we arent on that level. But once I can tell that we are there then I may send you a surprise.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:55 pm
But I wont just send them to you without knowing if we arent on that level. But once I can tell that we are there then I may send you a surprise.
TeeHee. I’m guessing this is a normal activity for men.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:58 pm
“TeeHee. I’m guessing this is a normal activity for men.
”
seems so..but they not sending them to themselves. OBVIOUSLY other women are turned on by this..im imagining being with a man for 50-11 years…and i dont know..its not working for me…maybe a se!x tape..
yeah NoNo..we know you done a se1x tape too. shat.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 2:58 pm
“TeeHee. I’m guessing this is a normal activity for men.”
Dont know if its normal, but I would think that you might be pleasantly surprised if during your mundane workday you got a nice picture of what would be waiting for you later that night from the guy you are with.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:00 pm
“yeah NoNo..we know you done a se1x tape too. shat.”
No I havent yet, I’ll email the details of the release date, pricing and retail locations when I do finally make one.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:00 pm
I’m not gonna lie, I have sent pics before… C&&ch pics… b&&b pics… but I won’t do it again
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:03 pm
NMH-Would I send this kinda pics…?
If you have pics as such my phone number is 205-356-…you know the rest. I’ll be waiting.
Wow A s3x tape?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:03 pm
I’m not gonna lie, I have sent pics before… C&&ch pics… b&&b pics… but I won’t do it again
I always have this fear that they will end up getting out and shown to all the boys…no thank you.
@ NoMo…I don’t think I’d have a problem with it if I was in a committed relationship or sum. But just friends or randoms wanting to flash me the swinging tree trunk…I’ll pass.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:04 pm
“I always have this fear that they will end up getting out and shown to all the boys…no thank you. ”
I ain’t nevah scared! LMAO. I lie, I was scared to death, but so far, so good.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:05 pm
Hey ya’ll its been a very very busy day!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Hollies! How do missy? And where the heck is Jolie and Cuzzo? And where 80’s run off to?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Hey Holister!
Er’body is on the friggin brinks.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:08 pm
@ Jada- I havent talk to Jolie all day! Jada I need your validation on the 2nd date too!
@ Nick- I have sent the same pics… the key is not to put your pic no where near. A guy sent me a pic and his face was in clear view he pissed me off and I sent it to just about everyone in my address book and my friend sent it to her peeps in hers….
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:09 pm
“I’m not gonna lie, I have sent pics before… C&&ch pics… b&&b pics… but I won’t do it again”
Why not?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:09 pm
NMH-Would I send this kinda pics…?
If you have pics as such my phone number is 205-356-…you know the rest. I’ll be waiting.
Wow A s3x tape?
Jac you get your @ss in the corner with NoMo. Matter fact…you got to the opposite corner. No telling what shenanigans you’ll get into in the same corner. And I’m stripping you both of all technology.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:09 pm
“@ Nick- I have sent the same pics… the key is not to put your pic no where near. A guy sent me a pic and his face was in clear view he pissed me off and I sent it to just about everyone in my address book and my friend sent it to her peeps in hers….”
Exactly Holister!!! They can’t see my face and only my gyno can confirm that that is my c&&ch.
That is hilarious. I’ve thought ’bout sending his out to folks but it will only give him play.. it’s big. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:10 pm
@ Jada- I havent talk to Jolie all day! Jada I need your validation on the 2nd date too!
Oh shoot Hollies I meant to peep this YESTERDAY! My bad baby doll. Off to the Lilac Carpet!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Jac you get your @ss in the corner with NoMo. Matter fact…you got to the opposite corner. No telling what shenanigans you’ll get into in the same corner. And I’m stripping you both of all technology.
*SCREAMS HEY NMH!*
*flashes t*ts*
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Hey Nick!
Well I told ya’ll they are limiting our personal computer use time plus I got deadlines out the wahzoo! I had a heart to heart career talk with an old potential last night and he set my arse straight and told me I need to shape it up and work to my potential regardless of how I view my job right now… he told me my work ethics were lacking and I should be preparing myself for the next job God is gonna put forth!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:12 pm
@Jada & Comeback
“TeeHee. I’m guessing this is a normal activity for men.”
This is not normal activity for men. I never have and never will take a pic of myself and send it off.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:12 pm
“last night and he set my arse straight and told me I need to shape it up and work to my potential regardless of how I view my job right now… he told me my work ethics were lacking and I should be preparing myself for the next job God is gonna put forth!”
Your potential just put me in check too
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:13 pm
@ Nick- His was too but ummmm he had a fiance that he neglected to tell me about so ummmm Jesus was revenge that day!
@Jada- Thx Honey!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:14 pm
“His was too but ummmm he had a fiance that he neglected to tell me about so ummmm Jesus was revenge that day!”
oooooh. Gotya.. LMAO. That’s what he gets!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Ok-Holly’s potential done checked all of us.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:15 pm
@ Humble- *whispering* KB you mustve made a mistake sending that to me last night…its ok I won’t tell…
@Nick- Im serious… I almost viewed him in a diff light!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:17 pm
@Nick- I don’t know if it ever got circulated around to his fiance but it was def around ATL!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:17 pm
“@Nick- I don’t know if it ever got circulated around to his fiance but it was def around ATL!”
What he does in the dark WILL COME INTO THE LIGHT… that is triflin.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:18 pm
*SCREAMS HEY NMH!*
*flashes t*ts*
Jac…GET OUT!
This is not normal activity for men. I never have and never will take a pic of myself and send it off.
Well alrighty then Humster. I can dig it babe!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:20 pm
You are right Nick!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Thx Jada!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:22 pm
@Holly
“*whispering* KB you mustve made a mistake sending that to me last night…its ok I won’t tell…”
HA!! You got jokes.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:23 pm
Jada-Lol…I am kidding NMH will never know what my boobs look like. NEVER. Buahaha…
*looks up Hummy’s e-mail*
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:27 pm
LOL!!! I luv you KB!!!
Jac what you doing???
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:29 pm
*looks up Hummy’s e-mail*
LAWD….Jesus be some spam blocker.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Haha…I am applying for jobs…hoping to lie down soon.
Jada-I was going to quote Hamster I mean Humster…but I decided not to.
MY MESSAGE WILL GO THROUGH!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:39 pm
MY MESSAGE WILL GO THROUGH!
LOL. Y’all have sure kept me entertained today.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:58 pm
“@Jada & Comeback
“TeeHee. I’m guessing this is a normal activity for men.”
This is not normal activity for men. I never have and never will take a pic of myself and send it off.
”
Thank you Hummy for helping to renew my faith in men ***rolls eys at NONO***
@ Sunny..im not gonna be able to do it..i have taken fotos myself..actually just in bra and panties for my own comeback body progress…actually a few years a go this guy i was seeing did ask me to do some and give them to him..Hell to the fyck no..he went on and on about “you dont trust me”…i did…but i think that also measures the depth of trust and love..cause i could do it for someone I deeply deeply deeply trusted…but err aahh for an everyday nagga i met 6 mos ago..No..and i aint tryna be runnin for pta president and people talking about my P&A..back in the day and not the PTA..you know what i mean yall..
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 3:59 pm
hi holister
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:00 pm
HEY COMEBACK!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:01 pm
Everyone’s so friendly around these parts I love it!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:14 pm
@ Holister..im gonna see Slum Dog tonite..i have ordained it so LOL..
thanks for the recommendation.
@ Jac..thats how we roll…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:17 pm
YAY!! CBG did you see that it won 4 Golden Globes??
Jac we all got southern hospitality and ish!
So ya’ll if I don’t contact Mr. Bailbondsman because I dont wanna create consistency or availability am I starting self-sabotage of the situation? Especially because we talk just about everyday anyway either through text or talk?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:20 pm
you guys are all insane…all of you
- why so serious, arkham asylum.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:20 pm
Holly-WE’re going to have to talk about this…later..after work..we may have to get on Skype and call on all the testosterone. This is complicated and Jac is sick
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:25 pm
I swear I don’t know how you negroes and negroettes stay employed.
When it comes to competitions, my date/girl/whoever is going to get annihilated (except bowling, I can’t bowl to save my life). Heaven help you if there’s a Ms. Pac Man game in the bowling alley, because not only will I beat you, the goal is to beat you by at least 70,000 points.
All the women cosigning on men doing manly duties (taking out trash, etc), I at least hope you feel the same about women doing womanly duties.
I gotta agree with Humble, I can’t see myself taking pics of Hugh Jr. and sending it off. But hey, if it makes your girl happy and gets her all hot and/or bothered for coital gymnastics, more power to you.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:31 pm
“I gotta agree with Humble, I can’t see myself taking pics of Hugh Jr. and sending it off. But hey, if it makes your girl happy and gets her all hot and/or bothered for coital gymnastics, more power to you.”
Coital gymnastics…well damn. That’s well…wow.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Damm!t Jac I want answers now I feel bad and ish!
I didnt call yesterday!
And Hugh we know how to Multi-task!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Ok Hol…since i loves you…
now has there been any texting today?? Email??? flare signals?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:40 pm
*tapping foot*
Can you answer my arse?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:51 pm
No signals Jac at all!
and I was in a quick meeting!
Where are the men??
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:52 pm
“because not only will I beat you, the goal is to beat you by at least 70,000 points.”
LOL. Thats how I am in Tetris.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:53 pm
NOMO answer my question!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:55 pm
“and i aint tryna be runnin for pta president and people talking about my P&A..back in the day and not the PTA..you know what i mean yall..”
Very valid concern… I have a lil freak buried deep down. LOL.
Hey Hugh Butts.. I mean Jazz.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:56 pm
“NOMO answer my question!”
If you like talking to dude then why would you purposely attempt to not talk to him just so you can not “create availability”? Yall talk every day, its obvious you are available. If you like him and like talking to him then continue to talk to him when you feel like doing so.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 4:57 pm
So don’t over think it basically NoMo?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:01 pm
“So don’t over think it basically NoMo?”
Correct.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:01 pm
I co-sign NMH
Nicki…Hugh Butts
Yeah I’m thinking my T but not my A…might get me into PTA hell…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:01 pm
thx NoMo and Jac!
A flare has been sent….
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:03 pm
I wanna see him but I dont wanna suggest….
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:07 pm
Holister.
repeat after me: PAIR and A SPAIR…
if you had other men to concentrate on..you prolly wouldnt be going threw these changes.
beef up the roster.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:10 pm
CBG I do… I have the roster… just like one of the players…. but you are right… leaving it alone…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:11 pm
“CBG I do… I have the roster… just like one of the players…. but you are right… leaving it alone…
”
I agree. i have my favorite too. well kind of..but rhat now it is what it is. And sometimes like is lust..you know.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:12 pm
And sometimes like is lust..you know.
Ditto! Im done Im digressing lol!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Women are nuts. Yall hope to high heaven to find someone worthy whom you actually like, then do everything possible to not show that you like them. Holly go see my man. If he has any sense he wont put his weewee in your hands. Jeez.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:16 pm
LOL @ NMH
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:17 pm
If he has any sense he wont put his weewee in your hands.
LOL! Im dead NoMo! But I don’t know… I don’t like imposing….
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:17 pm
NONO its called STRATEGY and being SELFPROTECTING
ok..get it together…men do it to.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Also Love Lockdown Until It’s Right, Comeback…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:21 pm
“NONO its called STRATEGY and being SELFPROTECTING”
Its called being a pu$$y who cant make a move because they are scared of the “what ifs.”
Not calling Holly one, but just saying in general.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:24 pm
Nicki: “Hey Hugh Butts.. I mean Jazz.”
Hey Sunny. Hugh Butts…just doesn’t roll off the tongue.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:27 pm
“Its called being a pu$$y who cant make a move because they are scared of the “what ifs.””
THEM fighting words Son..cause i think you callin me one too….
its time for a BATTLE…***looks for my online checkers username and password acct***
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:30 pm
its time for a BATTLE…***looks for my online checkers username and password acct***
Uh oh it’s a rumble in the treehouse! LOL!
“Its called being a pu$$y who cant make a move because they are scared of the “what ifs.””
NoMo I dont think that’s the case but naggas change they mind real quick and change up…
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:31 pm
“its time for a BATTLE…***looks for my online checkers username and password acct***”
That wasnt me. That was someone else who uses my computer.
Dont want no trouble lady. Words came out harshly but I stand by my message. Here’s a random smiley-face. Women cant resist the smiley-face
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:33 pm
“Nicki: “Hey Hugh Butts.. I mean Jazz.”
Hey Sunny. Hugh Butts…just doesn’t roll off the tongue.”
Keep the butts off the tongue, Hugh. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:33 pm
“NoMo I dont think that’s the case but naggas change they mind real quick and change up…”
Yeah, but I thought all you were doing was contemplating on seeing him. I would think if yall talk everyday then he shouldnt mind you seeing him, and I would figure you seeing him wouldnt turn you (or him) into a senseless horny maniac.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Lawd…I am done!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:45 pm
WTF is algo que alguein no sabe o no espera????
I need bilingual help ASAP. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:52 pm
Nicki…you know something we do not? Is there something we need to expect?
That’s kinda what you just said.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:57 pm
That don’t make since. DAYUM this homework… I’m supposed to match the phrase up to these stupid holidays….. HUUUUUHHHH. LOL
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 5:58 pm
sense
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 6:18 pm
That would be a surprise or unexpected gift.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:07 pm
Sunshine you know they have online spanish to english and vice versa translators right?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 10:47 pm
As a bachelor I cook and have so since I guess 18. And I use everything from the stove to the big Foremen grill-you know the one with the red dome. Spanish rice, brown rice, cutlets, pepper steak, bake the wings and every now and then throw in some cornish hens…f-that you live once and I got diabetes and heart failure in the fam. F-the fast food or waiting til I meet “her”. Also living for dolo there is no one there to “stir” “check the rice” or take the lasagana out so I dont cook them three hour type meals.
I love sports, and I actually KNOW em…check it there is a penalty in the NFL in which its hand signal is similar to a violation in the NBA. Not too many guys know this..the only hint is both calls always happen on offense.
Shoes; I dont need em professionally so I only have three, just brought the third last year and I get asked by both sexes, thugs and geeks as to where did I get em from..Cole Haans with the Nike air bubble ..you dont see them everyday..heck anyday!!!. As for fixing things..well today things are built in a way they dont need fixing you just replace em. Now if you own a home that maybe different. However all homes have TVs et al…I used be the guy in school helping “to fix” the ladies ahh reception or get the DVD working (it was something else when they first hit). As for organization and all..well she would have to feel me on this; help your self first, dont just show intiative-fall on your face once or twice, I’ll know you are real and not just “outsourcing” your responsibilities to me. Also consider what your man may do for a living…If he is an acct or works for Con Ed, he may not warm up to the idea of going over the utlilty bills with you again.