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For some reason I really don’t like the term baby daddy/baby momma. Husband or wife is a fine term. But I realize that those choices aren’t always completely viable in 21st century black relationships. When I meet men with children, I always wonder, why the hell did he have to pick me to [...]
Posts Tagged as ‘relationships’
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Marry Your Baby Daddy Day
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
4 Ways to Know If A Man Is Good In Bed
We all know that both Jesus Christ and Steve Harvey have abstinence rules. Of course the Lord would like you to wait until marriage, Steve Harvey says 90 days.
I don’t really want to argue whose right, besides who could argue with Jesus. But what can’t be argued with is that even the bible references having [...]
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Choosey Lover: Part Duex
A few months ago I wrote about being super choosey in regards to dating and relationships. The treehouse will be pleased to know that I am really examining the list of reasons that I have “nexted” men. Reasons I could only assume keep me safe and in complete and total control of my own romantic [...]
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
I Know What Boys Like…sort of
Ok so I may not ALWAYS know what boys like as The Waitresses proudly crooned back in the day, but I will be so bold to assert, today, I know what men want. Over the past few days, I’ve asked our male readers (affectionately termed The YoYo’s) what turn them on. As V Renee itemized [...]
Monday, April 6, 2009
The Chair, The Cleanse & The Purge
I first introduced the airy fairy element of The Comeback Girl, late last year. At the beginning of every season, which also marks the ending of the old, I space cleanse/smudge (with the sage stick, pictured above).
smudging: Smudging is the common name given to the sacred smoke bowl blessing. A powerful cleansing technique from the [...]
Monday, March 16, 2009
If It Isn’t Love…
Recently, I’ve been thinking about the look of love, yes the Sergio Mendes’ version.
And I’ve been thinking about New Edition too. I thought I told Ronny, Bobby Johnnie, Ricky and Mike, if I love the boy who cares who you like.
Treehouse. Ok. Cool It Now.
Seriously, since most of us are embarking upon or close to [...]
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
3 Easy Steps To Train Your Man
The operative word is “your”. It means that the two of you have established a rapport. He’s clearly into you. There’s tons of both physically and mental chemistry, which makes training him all the more easy. “Your” could also very well mean that the both of you haven’t technically slowed the party down, nor are either [...]
Thursday, February 19, 2009
The Secrets Of Women
BLOG TV TONITE: 8 pm. Be there. I had a surprise for the treehouse, hopefully it still happens tonite, regardless. Lets meet on blog tv.
A couple of months ago, I wrote a post on “The Secrets Of Men”. I think I pretty much nailed it from my quiet observation of the male species. So, I am [...]
Thursday, January 22, 2009
The “Meeting” Dance
I’ve been studying the fine art of meeting for more than 10 years 6 months now. And the best analogy, in my opinion, which explores how a woman “meets” and “pursues” a man centers around the oldest form of musical expression and body movement, dance.
Yesterday, I wrote about my disdain for the telephone and a man’s manipulation of said form of communication [...]
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Baby, Let’s Arm Wrestle?
I still love watching Jamie Foxx’s video ” Just Like Me”, mainly because some of the competitive scenes are VERY familiar.
I’m sorry, but if a man asks me to go bowling with him, I’m not going to be very interested in his questions about where I see myself in 5 years, while I concentrate and [...]
